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How Stories Change Us While We’re Writing Them

I’ve been thinking lately about how stories leave their fingerprints on us. We talk so much about shaping characters, refining arcs, and building worlds that we sometimes overlook the quieter truth: the act of writing shapes us, too.

Every long project I’ve ever worked on has changed me in ways I usually only understand in hindsight. A novel teaches you patience in a way few other things can. A play hones your ear for conflict and compression. A screenplay reminds you that every scene must earn its place. And each form reveals something different about your own strengths, your own blind spots, your own internal architecture as a creator.

When I look back at the past few years — the work that made it into the world, and the work still percolating quietly — I can see the subtle ways each piece has shifted me. The Second Coming of Grace taught me endurance and trust: that a story can take its time becoming what it needs to be. Threads of Light taught me about emotional precision — how to distill a moment so it gleams. The Shell, even in its shortlisting, reminded me that courage often looks like simply sending something out into the world.

But stories don’t just reshape our craft; they reshape how we move through life.

Writing forces you to sit still with complexity, to let characters be contradictory, flawed, luminous, confused. It requires an acceptance that truth is rarely singular. And I think, if we let it, that mindset begins to soften the harder edges of how we see ourselves too.

This year, I’m noticing a shift — something subtle, but steady. As I write, I’m becoming more aware of the ways my own perspective is evolving. How I’m thinking differently about place, about belonging, about the kind of creative life I want to build next. The idea I mentioned in earlier posts — of someday finding a home that feels like the 2000s Annex but with an ocean — is part of that evolution. It’s both a literal and a creative longing: a sense that my next stories may want different surroundings than the ones I’ve written in before.

I don’t think a story ever leaves you the same person you were when you began it. Some change you fiercely. Others do it so gently you only notice after the fact, like realizing one day that you’re standing a little differently, thinking a little differently, seeing the world with a slightly altered tilt.

As I move deeper into 2026, I’m letting that transformation happen at its own pace. I’m letting the stories I’m working on — in whatever form they arrive — continue their quiet work on me. And I’m trusting that when the next chapter of my life and writing opens, I’ll recognize it.

After all, we don’t just write stories.
Sometimes, they write us back.


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Naomi Vondell

Naomi Vondell is a Canadian writer of literary fiction with spiritual undertones, emotional resonance, and a touch of quiet humour. She lives in Northwestern Ontario, having spent most of her adult life in Toronto and the surrounding area. Her work explores themes of identity, memory, faith, and transformation. A lifelong storyteller, Naomi’s creative path has included acting, songwriting, and screenwriting. She holds a Master’s degree in clinical psychology and worked for years as a psychometrist before turning to fiction full-time. She earned her Creative Writing Certificate from the University of Toronto and studied screenwriting through UCLA Extension, where she trained with industry professionals—including a Star Trek: The Next Generation writer. Naomi is also a caregiver, a lover of Shakespeare and Buster Keaton, a fan of classic sitcoms and naval history, and a survivor of childhood bullying due to her neurodivergence. Her writing is shaped by curiosity, compassion, and a deep reverence for stories that reach across time. She is currently at work on a play (The Shell), two feature films (Going Global and a body-swap political satire), and a companion story collection titled Before the Light.

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